How to De-Escalate an Argument With Your Spouse: 7 Steps That Work Mid-Fight
It is 9:40 on a Tuesday night. It started with the dishwasher. Somewhere in the last four minutes it became about respect, then about…
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5 Ways Defensiveness Sabotages Your Marriage (and How to Fix It)
Does it feel like every conversation with your spouse turns into an argument? Do you find it hard to accept criticism or admit when…
Passive-Aggressiveness Solutions for Marriage
What is Passive Aggression? In this brief article we will be talking about the passive-aggressive spouse. Guarded, and often mistrustful, they are reluctant to…
The Silent Language of Marriage: How Body Language Impacts Communication
Words are powerful, but they’re only part of the communication equation in a marriage. Our body language – posture, facial expressions, gestures – can…
Stop Playing the Victim: How Taking Responsibility Can Heal Your Marriage
It’s easy to fall into the trap of feeling like the victim in a troubled marriage. When we focus solely on how our spouse…
Taming Your Anger: Where It Comes From and How to Control It
Anger is a natural human emotion, but when it spirals out of control, it can have devastating consequences for relationships, careers, and overall well-being.…
5 Ways Defensiveness Sabotages Your Marriage (and How to Fix It)
Does it feel like every conversation with your spouse turns into an argument? Do you find it hard to accept criticism or admit when…
How to Apologize Without Making Things Worse
We’ve all been there – you’ve messed up, hurt someone you care about, and you know an apology is in order. But the right…
Humility in Marriage: Key to a Stronger Bond
Did you know that couples who practice humility, grace, and deference towards their spouse, including prayer, have a 90% higher satisfaction rate in their…
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